Showing posts with label celebration. Show all posts
Showing posts with label celebration. Show all posts

Sunday, March 8, 2015

Happy Birthday, My Sweet

 Today is Katie's 20th birthday.
Her light and her love first came into our lives 
on this day in 1995
and for that,
we are grateful beyond words.

I can imagine her at the age of 20.

She has been showing signs of her ongoing presence 
in tender ways this week,
for which I'm thankful.

She taught us important lessons in her own unique style,
and her precious life continues to teach us.
We love you, Sweetheart! Happy Birthday!

Monday, July 7, 2014

"Hope for a Sea Change" by Elizabeth Aquino

My friend, the very talented writer Elizabeth Aquino of the blog "A Moon, Worn as if it Had Been a Shell," has written a gorgeous new memoir called  
"Hope for a Sea Change."
 
 It's available in eBook form for only $2.99 from
Amazon.com and
SheBooks.
I hope you will follow one of these links and order a copy. You can read it in one sitting, and I'll bet you will, because you won't want to put it down. Elizabeth's writing is gorgeous, and her story will give you a glimpse into what life is like for an intelligent, energetic, witty, loving, creative, dedicated woman when she is faced with the sudden onset of a mysterious illness in her precious first child.

Elizabeth's writing is insightful, honest, clear, and yet filled with feeling. Her descriptions of life with a critical illness in the family - of adjusting, coping, and seeking help from "the best of the best" - are gripping, intense and luminous. I could feel her hope, discouragement, wonder, exhaustion and dark humor as she tells Sophie's story. The only downside of this memoir is that I wish it was longer.

One of the bonds which we share is the birth date of our only daughters. Sophie and Katie were born on the same day, in the same year. Though I have never met Sophie, I was fortunate to be able to meet Elizabeth in Victoria, B.C. last year when she was on a respite break, provided to her by Caregifted. Elizabeth's voice and sensibility is a gift in my life, and I know that it will be in yours, once you dip into her beautiful prose.
That's Elizabeth on the right, across from Kim of the "Art in Red Wagons" blog
Elizabeth's writing and friendship have been lights on my path since I met her in the blogisphere. I recommend you visit her blog, as well as download her memoir. If you are anything like me, they will leave you you wanting to read more. I can't wait until she finishes and publishes the long version - but please, don't wait! Order your copy today. It costs less than a latte, and its impact will be far more lasting and beneficial to you than a rush of caffeine.

Thursday, July 3, 2014

Double Nickels

I turned 55 last week. To me, that's the "speed limit" birthday, but others have suggested that it also stands for "double nickels" - as you can see in the card I received from David:
On the morning of my birthday, Maribeth came over for a walk on "her" beach, and lunch in one of our favorite haunts...
...and then back to our house for a little "chill time" on the deck, and a quick visit with David and Gregg. Maribeth was the perfect "birthday presence," and I'm so grateful that she was able to spend it with me!
Late in the afternoon, our friend Linda arrived from Vienna. She was on her way to visit her family in California, and stayed with us for five days of fun.
Here we are at Burrata Bistro during my incredibly delicious (and oh-so-filling) birthday dinner...
 
...and this is the dessert tray which Burrata Bistro provided: blueberry tart, mocha creme caramel and tiramisu - with complementary glasses of port for everyone at the table!
Thank you, Kim and Alfonso!

Linda travels all over the world singing (her specialty is the operas of Richard Wagner). She was nominated for a Grammy award this year, and we enjoyed hearing all about her experiences at the ceremonies, parties and events surrounding the award show. Though she didn't win this time, it is quite an honor to be nominated at all - not to mention the privilege of attending the live concert, meeting and mingling with other artists.

We have a good time reminiscing about things we've done in the past, such as the time we went to the last concert given by the Commodores, before Lionel Richie went out on his own. We heard them perform in a small nightclub outside of Boston, with seats very close to the stage, and we were perhaps the only people not of African heritage in the club. And then there was the time I went to the church where Linda was a soloist, donning a choir robe, and standing next to her on the altar. I lip-synched along with hymns I didn't know, trying to be invisible. Not easy, standing next to the soloist, who happens to be about a foot taller than I.

On this visit, we went shopping for clothes and gifts, to the Pike Place Market in Seattle and to Port Townsend. We had our morning coffee together in the sun on the deck, barbecued dinners at home, and just relaxed. Linda had just come from an engagement in Seville, so it was good to be able to offer her a peaceful retreat by the sea.
You can tell that she and Gregg get along well...
 ...and share a sense of humor. 
She has known our kids since 2003, so she and David get on famously, as well.
My parents also love her, and took all of us to their club for dinner, after cocktail hour in their home.

On Monday, we went with my parents to Seattle to have a traditional (delicious) German dinner with a lovely couple whom Linda met when she sang in the Seattle Opera's production of Parsifal in 2003. Heidi and Hans are from Germany, adore Wagner's music and Linda's interpretation of it, and have become dear friends of hers - even traveling to Europe to hear her sing.
Here are Heidi and Hans with Linda on our deck in 2012 (my photos of the dinner at their house did not turn out well). We had a wonderful evening, and are so thankful to have met them through Linda. Music has the power to unite hearts across history, cultures, time zones and many miles.

All in all, a very happy birthday week, for which I'm grateful!

Saturday, March 8, 2014

Happy Birthday, Katie!

Happy Birthday, Precious Girl! You would be turning 19 today, if you were still here in body.
I know that you are with us in spirit, and we will celebrate your arrival in our lives with joy today.
David came home last night and we have the joy of spending this day (and this week) together; that's a wonderful birthday present! We're going to have a birthday dinner in your honor in one of your favorite places.
Your birthday dinner in 2006
We all send our love, today, as every day. We're so thankful that you are our daughter!
Opening gifts on your 11th birthday, March 8, 2006

** A very Happy Birthday to Sophie B., Katie's "birthday twin!" **

Sunday, July 14, 2013

July's Joys

Happy Bastille Day to those of you with ties to France! July has brought abundant joys: sunshine, a bit of travel, celebrations and the beauty of nature, not to mention the annual pleasure of the Tour de France. Ah, la belle France!

Poulsbo celebrates the 3rd of July, rather than the 4th. I am not sure why they do this; I asked Gregg, and he thinks it began with one of the nearby Navy base's tradition. In any case,
we went to a friend's house for the 3rd of July fireworks, which are set off over Liberty Bay; it was small-town spectacular. Sitting on lawn chairs, bundled up in the cool night air, watching colors exploding and sparkling as they fell from the sky, we enjoyed the company of neighbors and friends.

On the 4th of July, David went to work (it's a busy day on the boats), and Gregg and I set out on the first leg of a two-day journey to Montana. We spent the evening of the 4th walking in the warm twilight, as crowds gathered on the banks of the river in celebration and anticipation of the fireworks. We found a hopping bistro for a late supper, returning to our hotel for a good night's sleep. Up early the next morning, we took another walk, stopped at a great coffee shop (Brews Brothers - don't you love the name?) and headed further east on I-90. We were on our way to Big Sky, a ski resort that was developed in part by my parents' friend, Gustav Raaum. If you like adventure stories, click the link on his name and read the article; Gus is a man to admire.

I have heard about Big Sky for years, but have never been there. When I was growing up, my father often traveled to Montana on business, but I haven't been through the state since my college days - and neither has Gregg. When we were invited to attend a wedding and weekend of festivities in Big Sky, we said "yes" and planned a road trip.
Montana is incredibly beautiful, whether or not you are a skier. We took a hike around this lake the morning after we arrived.
Gregg has known the father of the bride since he was in the 5th grade; he has known the bride all of her life, and I've known her since she was a little girl. She and her brother grew up in our small town. We used to go camping in a group each summer with their parents, before everyone had kids and our activities diverged. It was a wonderful opportunity for a reunion.

The day before the wedding there was a bridal shower. In preparation for this event, the bride's cousin organized a cookbook project, asking each guest for contributions of recipes and photographs that would have meaning for the bride. She had them bound into a book; the finished product is a priceless keepsake and practical gift - a great idea!

The wedding was beautiful. The chapel faced the mountain (the heart of a wilderness area where the bride and groom met and fell in love) through large picture windows. Pastor is also a ski instructor, and his words about marriage reflected the deep values of that union, as well as an understanding of this particular couple's love of skiing and the outdoors.
Groom & bride about to drive from chapel to reception
The reception was a blast. Instead of a signing a guestbook, we signed a pair of skis, using permanent markers. We danced, visited with friends, and smiled and laughed until my face hurt. The love between the bride and groom was palpable and contagious - it made everyone happy.

The day after the wedding, we gathered for a barbecue at the bride's parents' suite in the lodge. The weather changed dramatically each day in Big Sky; we had thunderstorms, hail, rain, wind and clear blue skies. The light that particular evening was fantastic.
This is the view from the condominium which we shared with friends. It truly is a big sky in Montana.
Those big buildings are private homes!
We are so thankful to have been invited and able to make this trip. We had a blast!
On the way back from Montana, we stopped with friends at Gem Mountain to pan for raw sapphires. You buy a bucket of mud and rocks, and with them, the chance to find something pretty (or valuable) in the midst. The sapphires are like little agates - most of them are not blue unless you have them heat-treated. We didn't find any large enough to treat or have faceted, but it was fun to look for them...a bit like looking for beach glass - but dirtier, with less walking.
Panning for sapphires is a dirty job, but someone has to do it
We arrived home on Tuesday night. This was the view from the ferry as we crossed Puget Sound on the last leg of the trip.
At the end of the week, our friends who own Grounds for Change Coffee celebrated their company's 10th anniversary with a big party (400 people attended). I volunteered to help with registration, and stayed to join the festivities. They provided coffee, dessert, children's activities and live music. Pizza, sandwiches, beer, wine and soda were available for purchase. The event raised over $6,000 for Kitsap Community Resources, a local charitable organization.
Gregg took this photo of David and me at the GFC party
Yesterday, Gregg and I took a long walk on a beach north of here. We started by the lighthouse at Point No Point (yes, that really is the name) and walked for three hours. It was heavenly - like another birthday, to me. The beach wasn't crowded, once we passed the lighthouse, and the water was warm, which is unusual for Puget Sound.
This huge rock looks a bit like a potato, doesn't it? You can just faintly see Mt. Rainier above it.
This is the view looking back in the direction from which we came. The beach was so pristine that we were able to go barefoot for much of the walk. Walking in the water was like carrying weights - a great workout, refreshing, and it brought back happy memories of wading in the Sound as a child. A perfect day.
The lighthouse is just around the point (Point No Point)
Turn in the other direction and you can see Mt. Rainier in the distance.
I hope that you are finding joy in July, too!

Monday, August 20, 2012

The Party

My brother and I asked my parents how they would like to celebrate their 60th wedding anniversary, and they told us they would like to have a party for their closest friends.

The past 18 months have been hard for my parents and their friends; at least half a dozen of their group have passed away. When you live to be in your 80s, it is likely that you will endure the passing of some friends, but it is still a blow to the heart, every time it happens. The cumulative effect of so many memorial services has been hard. A gathering to celebrate a happy occasion was welcome.

My parents are natives of Seattle, and some of their friendships go as far back as grade school. That is something to think about, right there. To live in a community, to know people and share memories that far back is a rare blessing.

Jim, Caroline, Gregg and I discussed the menu and divided the responsibilities, and the result was a happy evening. We had a slideshow of photos, beginning with their wedding day and continuing through this summer; chocolate favors, seashell centerpieces, a dreamy cake, beautiful flowers, delicious food ("surf and turf") and a gathering of good friends and family.

There were toasts, good wishes and joy all around. My parents are very happy...and that makes me happy.

From the slideshow:
Bride & groom glowing after the ceremony
Mom's father, Morton, and mother, Emilie, with Mom & Dad
Cousins Margaret and Leslie, friends Elaine and Marjorie, Dad, Mom, Morton (Coco), Nana Edna (my dad's mother - isn't she beautiful?) and Nana Emilie
…and from the party Sunday night:
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David, me, Gregg, Dad, Jim, Mom, Caroline, Phil, Rachel
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Gregg, Dad, Mom & David before cocktail hour begins
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Seashell cake (from New Renaissance Cakes)
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Phil & his beautiful girlfriend, Rachel, who came up from California for the party
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Lovely ladies: Caroline and Mom
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Elsa, Patsy & me (Patsy was my teacher in PRESCHOOL)
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Mom & friends
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Caroline, Jim & friends
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Mom, Dad & friends
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Gregg, me with friends. All three of the couples at our table have been married over 60 years!
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The happy couple cutting their cake

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Homemade centerpiece


Happy 60th Anniversary, Mom & Dad!

Friday, August 17, 2012

Happy 60th Wedding Anniversary

Today, this couple
 
is celebrating 60 years of marriage! 
Through good times and bad, rough and smooth, they are still best friends 
- and they are still laughing together. 
What a great example. 
We are going to be celebrating with them this weekend, but for today,
Happy Anniversary, Mom & Dad!
We love you!